Is there such a thing as an adult who does not enjoy vacation?
I went on a little New Years’ getaway with my husband and our best friends, and I’ve been thinking a lot about what makes vacation so wonderful, and how to incorporate some of that into my daily life. I’ve come upon a few different concepts.
|From our recent vacation – relaxing in the middle of nowhere.
Relaxing, minimalist environment
Think about what made the vacation so relaxing. Was it that your space was clean? That you were living with just a suitcase of possessions and no clutter? Odds are good you were even living in a significantly smaller space than usual, possibly even with extra people, yet the hotel room/cabin/condo was relaxing.
This is great to replicate at home! Living with fewer possessions naturally helps your space stay cleaner. I will forever be indebted to the Kon Mari method of decluttering for making my home more peaceful and easier to keep picked up. Consider a capsule wardrobe to replicate the limited options of a suitcase (and the ease of dressing that comes with it!)
That may seem super small, but really. When’s the last time you changed your sheets and washed your throw blankets and bleached your towels? (I keep white towels for this reason.) Try it, and really pay attention to the sensation of sinking into fresh linens – savor it! (By extension, all your nicely folded laundry in your suitcase? Ey?) If you find this as valuable as I do, plan it into your housekeeping!
Now, this is probably personal preference, but I usually have some pre-planned activities on vacation. On this recent vacation, we brought along decks of cards to play our favorite game, one board game the husbands specifically like, and books and facemasks for the wives. Nothing fancy, nothing that involved leaving the couch. The aspect of this that makes the day so enjoyable is that there was no sitting around saying, “What should we do? I dunno. What do you want to do? I dunno.”
Consider planning your leisure once you’re back home – would you like to read a book in the evenings? Journal in the mornings? Have a family movie night? I have actually taken to pre-planning my leisure activities for my miracle mornings and for my evenings after the kids go to bed, and it’s great.
Personal growth time
Like I said, this recent vacation included intentional book-reading. For me, leisure reading is a part of self care and personal growth, because I truly love reading (like in the depths of my soul, love, reading. #nerd)
Odds are good that during a vacation, you take more time for these kinds of activities. Perhaps hiking is your personal growth. Maybe meditating. Some people probably experience personal growth by touring important landmarks or museums. Whatever it is that feeds your spirit, you’ve probably made up your mind and planned to do it during your official vacation.
You should really do that kind of stuff during your regular days. Seriously.
Moments of complete stillness
There are moments in vacation where absolutely nothing is going on. Nothing is calling your attention. Nothing needs to be cleaned or cooked or put away. Those moments may be in an art gallery, in your hotel room in the wee hours, sitting on a beach kid-free, or doing a face mask on a couch while your husbands play a board game.
See if you can recreate those moments in your daily home life. For me, those moments exist at 6:00 am (after my husband has left for work, my kids are still soundly asleep, and I’m alone in my office with a cup of coffee) but you can jam them anywhere. On a commute using public transport, on a walk, etc.
Pick one thing to try – make your daily life more like a vacation. Maybe commit to it for 2 weeks. Write it down. Plan it out.
Share what you’re going to try or what you already do!
P.S. – we used Air BnB to book our vacation, and it worked like a charm! I even got email copies of text messages sent by our host. Recommend!
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